“How do I save my relationship!” So many people have asked this question that it quickly became apparent that there was a real need for discussing the issue.
The first thing to do is to be honest with yourself about how you are feeling. If you are just “rubbing along” together, then with both partners willingness, the relationship can probably be revived and saved. Signs of this are when you feel reasonably happy as long as you don’t probe beneath the surface to look for what is missing. Alternatively, perhaps you are just pretending to be happy, afraid to step out of your comfort zone and the consequences of voicing your doubts. Guilt and confusion can be a common factor in relationships where one partner is just going through the motions.
Then Costello says, “Well, who’s playing first?. “Yes” is the reply. “I mean the fellow’s name on first base.” “Who” comes the reply. “The fellow playing first base.” “Who” comes the answer again. “The guy on first base” asks again Costello. “Who’s on first.” repeats Abbott. Then Costello retorts “What are you asking me for?
In our conversations I asked about him saying “No” to people. This was a very difficult thing for him to do in an intimate relationship, there was a lot of guilt associated with saying no. So homework for that week as saying no, in a respectful way.
Splitting your time between work and family is quite hard. It can be even harder if you choose to deal with your debts all by yourself. You will no longer have spare time and your mind will be busy making financial plans, you will no longer be able to enjoy the little pleasures of life and also you will be stressed and lose your ability to focus on your job. And still you cannot be sure that you are going on the right path! You do not need all that! A debt counseling agency will take all those problems out of your head and you will be able to relax and regain your inner equilibrium.
Did you ever feel depressed? In the US, lots of people spend a fortune on Igor Ledochowski and drugs, trying to beat depression. Drugs, such as ValiumT, release chemicals into your brain that actually trigger responses in your brain cells, to make you “feel” happier. Giving one of these away actually does the same!
However, the reality is that not every relationship should be saved. Below are some questions that I had to answer when it came time to decide whether or not to save my own relationship from falling apart.
So when adversity hits, either in your personal life, or in your make money from home business, don’t give up. Remember the best players in any field have given hours and hours to practicing, no matter how talented they are. Practice is what made them what they are. And for us, we need to keep on practicing to overcome adversity when things seem to go wrong. By asking ourselves why something went wrong, trying again and getting advice where we can, we will look back and say sticking with it was the best thing to do.